FAQ
FAQ – generally repeated questions, links and tid bits
Name: missi
Is that your real name? No its not
Will you tell us your real name? I would prefer to keep my real identity secret. If I want you to know it I will tell you
How old are you? I am 21
When is your birthday? 16 May 1990
Where are you from? Sydney Australia
What is your sexual orientation? Bisexual
What do you look like? There is a whole tab devoted to pictures and videos I have posted. I suggest you look there as it will show me better than I can ever describe here
How tall are you? An average 165cm
How much do you weigh? If you really want to know, I do have a weight loss blog. The URL for this is available upon request
What is your journal? Its a separate password protected blog for my more in depth thoughts.
How do I get access to it? The link is on my page. Drop me an account linked ask. If you don’t have an account but still want the password then you’ll have to actually email a request to me. I won’t be posting it.
Do you have a fetlife account? Yes I do. This is available via private request
Who is your Master? My Master is Master Sire who can be found here – http://mastersire.tumblr.com/
I looked through the pictures and he looks old. Is there an age gap? My Master has been through two rounds of cancer treatment which has aged Him. Sire is in His thirties, I am in my early twenties so yes there is an age gap.
Why would you want someone older? I have always liked older men and they just appeal to me. I don’t really like to play with anyone under 27 now days. If you have an issue with the age gap, I really don’t care.
How did you and Sire meet? We met through the unlikely medium of vanilla friends and pretty much hit it off immediately!
So you live a BDSM lifestyle? Sure do. We live a 24/7 power exchange BDSM lifestyle
Does your family know about your lifestyle? No they don’t and I would like to keep it that way. My family are very vanilla and to be honest I don’t think they need to know.
What do you mean by 24/7? I mean that it is in constant play. It is how we live our lives completely.
What role do you take in the relationship? I am the submissive/slave to my dominant/master
Do you ever switch? I like to dominate women but I don’t feel comfortable dominating men
So does your Master beat you? No He does not. We participate in ‘pain play’ as it is one of my kinks. We have toys such as floggers, crops and canes are used to fulfill my kinks. There is nothing violent about what we do. I yelp a little but generally moan. For me the pain is pleasurable. It is not abuse.
What would you say to someone who says you were destroying all the hard work feminists put into getting you rights? I would say that feminists fought to give me a choice and this is how I choose to live. End of story.
Are you your Master’s only slave?* No. I have one sister slave. Pearl (who is under protection) – Her blog is currently only being given out to people who ask for it due to abuse as well as a puppy boy
*With this there have been repeated people who feel the need to try and discredit Pearl for a number of different reasons. I will say this once: questions or comments of any sort of negative nature towards either of my sister slaves WILL NOT be published. So little of our lives with them is posted at their request and I am sick of people trying to pick them apart with the small pieces of information they are given.
Where does Pearl? Do they live with you? Pearl lives close but is studying her degree on campus.
What happened to Jewel? She chose for personal reasons to discontinue the lifestyle. We do however keep in touch.
Ew your into beastiality? No, puppy boy is a grown walking and talking man, who just used the term ‘puppy’ to characterise his loyalty. He is a sexual component to our household.
So you and your Master sleep with other people? We sleep with other people within the lifestyle only. We are an open poly house.
Does your Master ever have sex with other women without you? Sire and I live by a ‘play together stay together’ policy. We’re always involved in some way.
Do you ever get jealous of your Master with other women? I have no need. I am very comfortable with my place in His heart and His life. No woman can fill the place I currently hold. With all the conversations we have had on this and my own gut feelings, I have never experienced a feeling of jealousy during play.
How do you feel about other people having sex with you? Being loaned out by my Master is actually one of my biggest kinks, as I discovered at my gang bang (this post can be found in my side tabs section). To have my Master tell me to pleasure someone…brings the most overpowering feeling of submission to me.
Do you and your Master have ‘safe sex’? Sire and I always use protection when playing with partners we don’t know well. There have only ever been two occasions where we haven’t and this was because we knew the couples extremely well and their histories. We also get STI checks every 6 months.
In what kind of situations do you two play together? We often attend events, both lifestyle and vanilla which fulfill our poly nature. We are currently becoming regular attendees of gang bangs, picture link is available on request.
What do you do for work? I work full time like my Master in Sydney. I’m an administrative assistant.
Is it what you want to do for the rest of your life? Heavens no! I want to make corsets and be a stay at home 24/7 slave with a home business.
You say you got into the BDSM lifestyle at 13. How? I was ‘forced’ into it by my former Mistress. She can be found here – http://submissivejosie.tumblr.com/
I’ve seen you mention a few times that you need permission to orgasm. Why? I am orgasm control trained: I am physically incapable of orgasming without permission. A lot of women confuse orgasm denial (using mental control to prevent orgasm until allowed) with orgasm control (the reprogramming of the brain to associate the orgasm release with a command). I am unable to orgasm without permission from my Master.
You have called your mouth a cunt before. Why? Read my rules. Its clearly stated there.
How long have you and Sire been together? Since January 2010 and in the BDSM lifestyle since Late May 2010.
You often talk about events? What are these? We get invites to various private lifestyle parties and that sort of thing as well as attending the local fetish club.
I just want to read your text posts, their getting lost in the picture reblogs! No worries. In my tab section is a link called ‘Personal blog’. Clicking here will instantly get rid of all the reblogged pictures and be just my text posts :)
You haven’t followed me back?! Due to my work time frames I don’t get on tumblr until my evenings and generally check out blogs and follow back then.
I sent a message and you didn’t post it, why? A number of reasons. The most likely is I haven’t got there yet. I do work full time and have a large number of commitments outside of tumblr. The other possibility is it was rude and I don’t want that sort of negativity on my blog.
Can I add you on msn? Yes you may. But be warned: I do not have a web cam on my computer, nor am I allowed to cam without expressed permission from my Master. As a BDSM slave I am owned, which means that you will show me respect and not treat me as a sex object/slut or you will be blocked. On this I only give one warning. My address is slave_missi6@hotmail.com
A final note to anons and anyone else who feels the need to leave negativity in my ask box. Feel free to waste your time sending it. Chances are it won’t be posted and to be honest, with everything else going on in my life that I don’t post about, that I really don’t give a fuck about your pathetic little opinion.
If you feel that something is missing from my FAQ page, please tell me so I can rectify this.